Expensive Dave,
My husband and I dwell in India. I’m from the States, and he was born right here. Relating to our funds, I handle our American investments, and he manages our Indian investments. Each month, we sit down with spreadsheets and go over our funds. I belief him fully, however I’d like to higher perceive our investments right here and the way they work. Ought to I simply defer to his judgment, or ought to I be taught to grasp issues slightly higher?
Anna

Expensive Anna,
I at all times inform of us to ensure they fully perceive their investments and the way they work. So, there’s completely nothing flawed with studying extra concerning the facet of your investments he manages.

I realized a very long time in the past that while you’re married and it comes to creating selections, it’s best to use all your mind. Meaning each of you. Two heads are higher than one, proper? Again after I made all my errors with cash and we went broke, I didn’t take heed to anybody about something. I believed I knew all of it. We had investments and owned items of property my spouse by no means knew about or laid eyes on.

When it got here to our funds, she at all times trusted me and instructed me to do what I believed was finest. Properly, it seems, I used to be an fool. If I’d had an oz of sense or humility again then, I’d have gone to her with my all my brilliant concepts. Understanding her ideas or listening to her say, “I don’t find out about that, honey. I’ve received a foul feeling about it” may’ve saved us loads of ache and heartache — if I’d listened. However now, I perceive like by no means earlier than the that means of Proverbs 31:10-12. “Who can discover a virtuous spouse? For her value is above rubies. The guts of her husband safely trusts her; so he could have no lack of achieve” (NKJV).  

I’m positive your husband is lot smarter about issues than I used to be.  And he’s clearly open to speaking with you about all this and displaying you issues. That’s a extremely good signal. But when I have been him, and one thing have been to occur, I’d need you to grasp all the pieces. I’d need you to know precisely what you will have occurring and the way it all works.

Nice query, Anna!
— Dave