“What does an ideal marriage seem like (30-foot view)? Right here’s the problem: you may solely reply in music.”

Ahhh, that’s the very best query I’ve acquired to date!! 😮

I’m ALWAYS up for a problem! 💯 Right here’s the factor although, you didn’t say how MANY songs I get!!!! Right here’s my prime 50…kidding! 😆

If I’ve to boil it right down to ONE music, it might be this one. For each the boy and the lady. 

Causes:

1. He’s going to like her in a method she’s by no means been cherished earlier than and that love that he’s referring to is RARE. Most guys love THEMSELVES, not you (solely in as a lot as what you are able to do for them) and so he stands out from the group as a result of he’ll love you with Christ’s love, which is sacrificial, a love value dying for
2. It is a eternally form of love – not one thing he takes as a right or throws away after a short time. He’s in it for the lengthy haul.
3. He’s going to find out about her – a good looking and tender, lifelong pursuit for a married couple
4. He desires to honor her mother and pop – once more, uncommon, however completely crucial; anybody who loves YOU goes to need to love your mother and father since they actually made you who you might be and recognize them vastly due to that! The Bible talks about leaving and cleaving (Matthew 19:5) however that by no means means to keep away from or cease the connection, by no means chopping them out of the couple’s lives. Nonetheless spending holidays collectively, nonetheless having these close-nit relationships, however that the precedence now turns into the partner. I’ve seen spouses drive a wedge between the mother and father and the kid as a consequence of being jealous and that is unbefitting of a godly individual! Mother and father are to be honored; that’s clear in Scripture (Exodus 20:12)
5. He desires to be a person for her – he desires to be his finest, he desires to be what she wants
6. He desires to make HER world higher than it’s ever been – his focus is on her, not himself, and that’s Christ’s love
7. He desires to consolation her and be there for her – within the good and within the dangerous, as a result of marriage, like some other relationship, may have each of these occasions

If I get extra songs, right here’s a couple of extra I might say do an ideal job of explaining issues. 😊

• Only Hope – A superb marriage is one that’s prayed about typically. I’ve been praying for my future husband lengthy earlier than I ever meet him. I hope he’s glad, that he does what is true, I pray for his blessings, and I pray for the second after we meet and get to know one another, that we’ll at all times search to place God first in our marriage and in our lives. She is just his and nobody else’s. It’s very pure, harmless, loving, caring, stuffed with kindness. My husband would be the one who redeems me; he’s my solely hope (human instrument within the palms of God).
• Candy – I’m a form of one who is tremendous clingy. I at all times need to be round my husband and do every little thing collectively. I by no means need to be aside; I’ll love him a lot and simply be adoring to him always. 
• Un Ano Sin Lluvia –  That is my favourite Spanish music. There’s an English version, however for my part, it’s not NEAR nearly as good. When it’s translated actually from Spanish to English (not the English model, however the Spanish model), it’s far more romantic and makes use of totally different phrases that present the starvation for her soul mate that she is in love with. It’s dripping with love and simply desirous to be with him. She’s dying being with out him and in marriage, that’s the way it ought to be. At any time when aside, it ought to be this huge starvation and ache to be round them, eager for them to get again to you. THIS is the rationale I can’t deal with my future husband working outdoors the house. I simply would miss him WAY an excessive amount of whereas he’s gone to work and I can’t deal with that aching ache each single day. My favourite half is when she says, come again to me so I can maintain you (which is just within the Spanish model, not the English model). 
• Once in a Lifetime – It’s a love that lasts a lifetime and there’s just one. You discover somebody with many traits, traits, habits, and character just like yours and then you definately develop what’s not comparable collectively. It’s okay to have issues which might be totally different, however as time goes on, you’ll begin to bend towards one another and grow to be an individual that’s solely proper for HER, your spouse, and her with you. It’s marriages that develop aside that fail. You need to at all times develop TOGETHER.
• Best Friend – You’re finest pals with one another. You do every little thing collectively. It’s a life-style of togetherness, at all times being there for one another.
• Drag Me Down – She’s going to carry you up, reward you, edify you, construct you, allow you to. Together with her round, nobody can drag you down as a result of her love will shield you in some ways. Together with her, he might be his best possible. ❤️
• Your Everything – he’s so grateful for her, he simply desires to be every little thing she desires and desires and that’s stunning. If you love somebody, that’s precisely how you’re feeling. You need to make their life so good.
• Naturally – The couple ought to match collectively properly and work collectively in each space. Not that they’re precisely the identical, however that they need to naturally match. Personalities ought to mesh properly, goals, objectives, morals, integrity, issues of that nature ought to all match collectively and be in widespread. It ought to be one thing pure, not compelled.
• I might additionally say that there ought to be an INTENSE ardour (empathy of the souls combining) for one another inside marriage. Intimacy ought to be persistently loved.